Every day things happen. Whether we ready for them or not. But they still happen nevertheless. I find that few do introspection though. Okay so that may not be a fair statement. People always think about what they do. What I mean is that few people challenge themselves to find out the real reason they do things. Take for example, we have a person who is always around others. There is nothing wrong with that per say. But if lets say he is there because he is lonely and cannot live with himself, then we would say that is not good. Yet we could also find a person that is very okay with themselves, but still hangs out with others quite a bit. We would then say that's not bad at all. There is always 2 sides to any story. I think what throws us here is that the circumstances are everyday things. And everybody does everyday things, right. But sometimes we do them for the wrong reasons and we never question them because they are everyday things. And we never analyze the everyday things, do we? I am not meaning we should second guess ourselves on everything. But it would be good to know that we are doing what we are doing for the right reasons (whatever that may be). I guess what I am saying that there always will be a duality of intentions, and they both look the same to us from the other end. None of us can see with what intentions the other person has. Given that, do you question your actions? theHonestOne